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By Monadog
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Joined:  Tue Apr 21, 2020 9:43 pm
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Traders,
After answering a trade request it is polite to respond with either a yes or no to the trade requestor. Without this simple piece of etiquette in reply, who would want to participate in this trading forum?
By ChefDean
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It would be totally appropriate to respond with a respectful yes or no, regardless of who the trade suggestion originated from. Regardless of whether it was in an open forum or PM.
For example; I just initiated a possibility of a trade today via PM, based on another member posting in a public forum that they had discovered multiple divisions from their mother plant upon repotting.
Things went well in the negotiations, but stalled out in the payment area due to technical problems on my end.
I backed out because the issues were from my end, so as to not cause undue problems for the other member.
There is still a possibility of working out the kinks, but, as I see it, I need to go the extra mile to make sure the other party is satisfied because I initiated it.
As long as both parties make a good faith effort to come to an equitable solution, a trade can be met under the existing "Sales, Trades, and Wants" subforum or PM, but all parties need to be adult, equitable, and fair about it.
It would be up to the parties involved to come to an agreement, just act like grown ups while doing so.
Chef
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By hungry carnivores
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Joined:  Sun Apr 05, 2020 7:31 am
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Also, if it is of any help, here's a nice letter somebody sent me asking to trade.

Good morning. ( Hi could work too, but always love a salutation)

Congrats on a dozen new babies. I hope I'm not being too bold, but are you considering trading or selling any? (straightforward request of want)

This early in the year I don't have much to trade, some D. Intermedia or D. Binata var. Multifida right now. Later I'm hoping for some B. Liniflora, D. Filiformis, D. Intermedia "Cuba", or, much later, some gemmae. So, unless you're willing to trade but perhaps wait for me to grow something up, maybe buying might be better at the moment.

(What the trader had up for trade)

However, if you're not interested in parting with any, thanks for your time in reading this. (Salutation, and a nice ending, not required, but very polite)


It's OK for a trade to deviate from what you had offered, in my opinion, so long as both parties benefit. I also always toss pullings/cuttings in to a trade just to brighten another person's day and offer them some new species (and It's so fun to exchange cuttings, this can even be done by SASE.)


Trades should be fair. This trade above ended in me receiving a larger Pinguicula (not a strike) and a little cash to help pay shipping.
For this, I'm sending them a few D. Adelae roots, a stolon of U. Reniformis, and a Cephalotus plant. I put the reniformis, since the cephalotus is a tiny bit small.

At the end, I always put a 'to confirm message', with both parties' lists to give. In this situation, it would look something like this, but the tradee did this instead of me.

Sample:
I get: Pinguicula baby and Shipping Money
I give: D. Adelae root, U. Reniformis 'f. courte' stolon, C. Follicularis.

Once everything rolls through, you're done. Remember, no request is ever absurd, but some could be rude (trading ventratas for veitchiis etc). If you don't have many nice species, sometimes I put together pulling boxes, a standard assortment I offer for trade. Nothing wrong with that.

And remember to be polite and accomodating to the trader and tradee.
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