DDavoren wrote:is it normal for some traps to bunch together and fall over?
That happens from time to time. Depending on the clone, some of the leaves can be tall and then and more prone to falling over. Also, lack of light will cause spindly weak growth that will fall over easier.
DDavoren wrote:I was reading that in order to make the traps as big as possible, that i should cut the flower stalk as soon as I see it, does that mean the stem with the traps grow from?
I don't follow your question here. A flower stalk is a long, tall stalk that adult flytraps grow in the spring time. It's fairly obviously different from leaves and traps.
DDavoren wrote:if that is the case, about how many traps would i want to have all the time, so i can cut the rest?
You should never cut green traps off of the plant (though you can cut them off once they turn brown or black), only the flower stalk.